good looks attract the eyes. personality/character attracts the heart..

he/she cheats because you are not giving him/her what he/she needs..

quotes from various, but i find them really true.

in a relationship, it's not just about the companionship. there is more to it. to make a relationship work, it takes 2. it takes alot of effort for both parties to make it work.

utmost trust, constant communication, absolute honesty and faith in each other, to me, are of ultimate importance in a relationship. without any of these, even if your other half looks like heaven, it wont even matter cos th relationship will not last.

if you cannot trust your other half now, what about 50years and beyond? so what if he's texting this other girl? so what if he goes out with female colleagues/friends? so what if he doesnt reply to your calls/text? does it mean that he's definitely cheating on you? he can love you and ONLY you while he's out with some other girls. you just have to have faith in your relationship and trust him. isnt it really tiring to always want to know who's he with, what's he doing? you'll go bonkers one day!

if he's really someone so dear to you, i dont see HOW dear he is, when you cant trust him at all!!

communication is really very important. it forms the basis of understanding. imagine someone who doesnt communicate to you his/her thoughts. HOW can you even understand him in the least bit? it doesn help if he cannot understand a very simple message you tried to put across. some call this.. chemistry between couples. oh wells.. *shrugs*

being dishonest and not have faith in each other will eventually lead to a relationship's end too.





the luxury to have breakfast with you is what i dream of now.